Do you like to shop?  Do you like to give things away?  It’s always felt good to me to indulge in both with equal passion.  Can you think of things you like to do that seem to be most enjoyable when you do something else, often something in a different direction, with it?  Do you enjoy vacations more when you work for them?  Do you appreciate fine meals ore when you’ve been successful at exercising discipline in your diet?