This type of tree begins with you at the center and branches out to include family and friends who you think of as family, as intrinsically tied to your life and growth. Think of the 5-10 people that are closest to you. Place your name in the middle of a piece of paper and draw lines from your name outward, like spokes on a wheel, and place one name of a family member or friend at the end of each line. Under each name, list three things you like or admire about them. How do you feel in their company? List some of these qualities. Contemplate how these qualities are connected with things you want to be in your own life.