Years ago, when I attended elementary school, it was not uncommon for teachers to run “pen pal” programs. Kids in different parts of the world would relay some information about their day; their school and family. Maybe they‘d get in to their hopes and  dreams. Imagine a correspondence between you and a direct recipient of your generosity.  What might you want to express (regarding how the relationship and offering has changed your life)?  What might you like to hear from a person who might benefit from your commitment? How would you like to have touched their life?