Think of three things that you would consider beautiful because they rare, because they don’t occur often. Think about one example a little deeper.  What is especially impressive about its occurrence? What does this tell you about what you value? As example, I have a good friend where we recently discovered we have the same birthday.  (She is. two years older, but we share the date. I’m tickled about having a birthday sister and am reminded how much I value having things in common with people I love.