Can you remember ever feeling invisible — at least to certain people, or for a certain period of time?  Maybe as a preteen, some kids didn’t notice you because you were short or shy.  Did you do anything to get noticed (even by calling negative attention to yourself), or did something change where people started to notice you?  Maybe you went through a growth spurt or got your braces off. Maybe you just started hanging out with different people that were able to see you. Describe the situation. What difference did you feel going from unseen to seen? What might you be grateful for in the situation?